Addiction Relapse Factors
One major cause of relapse is stress, often a catalyst which led to substance abuse in the first place. Stress might emanate from troubles with a spouse and children, job issues, health problems, or friendships.
Peer pressure to continue drinking or doing drugs is another contributing factor in cases of relapse. When others drink around a recovering addict and encourage him to have a beer or a glass of wine with them, saying no is extremely difficult.
Restricting access to a substance is a good idea: easy access makes relapse too easy. Add either of the other two factors and an addict will be tempted to take advantage of accessible substances. Recurring relapse is also common, especially when underlying issues are not dealt with.
One must consider whether or not treatment was complete. Returning to a therapist on an intense basis for a short time or enrolling once more in a full program of outpatient treatment could be a good option and is not a sign of failure.
Recovering from Relapse
While feeling discouraged is natural, try not to dwell on a sense of failure if you relapse. Take time to think about the reasons you drink and what you can do to change your circumstances. Talk to people who provide positive encouragement: a counselor, your sponsor, or a trusted friend. Choose to be around people who do not drink and respect the effort you have been making. This is potentially a time to stop being around friends who influence you negatively. Have someone remove all the alcohol from your home. Address causes of stress by talking to the boss or whoever you are experiencing friction with. Sign up for marital counseling. Most importantly, there is no limit to how many times you can start again.